Imagine a person you got to know recently;(there's already a positive bond forming) comes at you and accuses you of something that naturally you wouldn't do but in fact did out of compulsion or hopelessness. What would be your reaction? If defense, embarrassment, anger, sadness, or even shock doesn't pop up in your mind then I guess you're just a robot, and no I'm not referring to the Kdrama robot but one without feelings or appropriately put, a conscience. For those with feelings, you might say things like: "You don't understand", " That's not how it is", "You don't know me", "Don't judge me" and all that. Alright so focus on the last two statements. Of course, he or she doesn't know you! It's a new relationship; one in its early stages. It means they're not wrong but then 'They don't know you so they have no right to judge you or your intentions'. Now think about a situ...
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