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FEAR

Heyo😁

Its been a while and I want to sincerely apologise for my absence.

The topic of interest today is FEAR. A very interesting topic and also one crazy emotion.


It's a feeling that distabilises the mind, the soul and also the body. Virtually every human has been there and it's not pleasing😞.

It brings a sense of insecurity and leaves one distraught after the damage has been done.

FEAR is a controlling agent in the lives of human. It makes you do things you've never done, go to lengths you've never gone through before.

There are times when it even drives one crazy, I've been there so I know how it feels but do you know that you are most times the cause of uour fear. It's been brooding in your mind for a while and then one day BOOM, it surfaces.

FEAR comes from the mind. When you already have a feeling of low self-esteem, fear comes in.

If you notice, it comes regularly and when I say regularly I mean when we are about to do something big like take on a project, it also comes on a daily basis which many of us have turned it to a norm.

It also comes in relationships be it physical or spiritual. I see it as something that is inevitable but then you shouldn't allow it to control the decisions you make concerning yourself and the people around you(though it helps in judging the people who want to have way into your life).

FEAR is a negative vibe. It brings out the beast in people. They begin to hide from the world and then it nutures depression. The mental health depreciates and a lot of people end up living in asylums.

But then it can be overcomed.


It is a wide topic and it's so unfortunate that it can't be concluded in today's session but then to get an update on the next session, endeavor to hit on SUSCRIBE.

I just want to appreciate you all for your support. Please keep the comments coming as it gives me the motivation to push on.

Thank you❤️

Regarding your questions or contributions, you can send an email to emeasoadaeze@gmail.com.

Till next time, remain blessed.

Dese.

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